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What Is In a Name?

Tuesday, May 31st, 2005

I probably haven’t always hated my name (Diane … pronounced Dee-Anne). As a toddler, I was labeled “DiDi.” As I grew older, it metamorphosed into “Dids” or “that darn child!” In fact, if I recall correctly, my name being mispronounced hardly competed with the incessant urge to play or seek happiness, until an older sibling alerted me to the fact, that each and every occurrence was if not a hideous crime, at least a slight of indecent proportions.

What was a ten-year-old to do? Being the youngest of eight, my place in the family hiererchy was set. I should be seen and not heard, when told to jump, the only acceptable response was, “How high?” I had jurisdiction over the backyard chickens, one of the dogs, (can one ever have jurisdiction over a cat?) and my imaginary Indian friends. (Playing Cowboys and Indians was not yet considered politically incorrect)

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Images

Tuesday, May 31st, 2005

Step Out on Faith by WAK Wrapped in the arms of Heaven by Taylor The Road by Cooper Comfort by L. Freeman My Comfort by Ivey

Double-Check Your Email Addresses!

Saturday, May 28th, 2005

A Lesson to be Learned from the wrong Email Address!

A couple from Minneapolis decided to go to Florida to thaw out during one particularly icy winter. They planned to stay at the very same hotel where they spent their honeymoon 20 years earlier. Because of hectic schedules, it was difficult to coordinate their travel schedules. So, the husband left Minnesota and flew to Florida on Thursday, with his wife flying down the following day.

The husband checked into the hotel. There was a computer in his room, so he decided to send an e-mail to his wife. However, he accidentally left out one letter in her email address, and without realizing his error, he sent the e-mail.

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A God Who Forgives

Friday, May 27th, 2005

“Forgiveness – the act of excusing or pardoning others in spite of their slights, shortcomings, and errors. As a theological term, forgiveness refers to God’s pardon of the sins of human beings.”

At some point in our lives we’ve all been in the position of wanting forgiveness or being asked for forgiveness. Sometimes we give it, sometimes we withhold it, sometimes we receive it, and sometimes it is withheld from us.

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Elected by Grace

Friday, May 27th, 2005
John 15:1-17

In last week’s topic “Elected by God” we heard that election can be the choice of a specific individual to some office or to perform some special service. We also heard that election is a dual process. God chose humanity to be just like Him; humanity had a choice; Adam’s choice was disobedience. We also heard that God can use anyone:

Like Moses who felt inadequate to speak to Pharaoh because of his stutter, Abram who was childless, yet God promised to build a nation and a people for Himself out of Abram’s descendants, Saul who was zealous but shooting baskets for the wrong team until he had an encounter with God during a game, and last but not least, Rivers in the Desert Community Church, small in number but charged to do large things for God.

We also heard that, as in the case of Abraham, sometimes the election by God calls us to separate ourselves from family members, family ties, emotional baggage or a train of thought inherited from our ancestors, in order to go where God would have us to go and to accomplish that which He would have us accomplish to His honor and glory. Kinda like Rivers in the Desert, we’ve left some stuff behind, and left a couple of places, to end up in the location we are in today, knowing that with God, timing and location are key.

Which brings us to this week’s topic, “Elected by Grace” and what it means to us as Christians.

I must admit…I searched my head for the perfect “hook” in continuing this series that Pastor so eloquently kicked off. That prideful side of me…the side that pushes me to want to measure up, be just as good as…or even come a little close, was working overtime during what has proven to be a stressful week.

Nevertheless…I came up with one…“Chosen: Now What?” Doesn’t that just grab you right off the bat? But somehow, no matter how I worked it, twitched it and tweaked it…it kept me focused exactly where I didn’t want to go. It kept the emphasis on the work of a Christian, when our topic is firmly about the state of Grace. So sadly…I retired the brilliant (in my opinion) hook…and reverted to the assigned title.

“Elected by Grace”—not splashy, but right on target.

Grace:-Favor or kindness shown without regard to the worth or merit of the one who receives it and in spite of what that person deserves.

The very definition of grace addresses those of us today, who as Christians have gotten into the habit of thinking that our doodoos or gases don’t stink. What do I mean by that? I’m talking about those of us who’ve served a dish or two during fellowship hour, maybe sang a song or two during service, swept a floor ever now and then, typed up a bulletin or two and/or contributed faithfully. Having done one of more of the above, we feel justified enough to look around, decide who’s not working at all, or maybe not working hard enough (in our estimation) and devise tasks in our minds that are perfect for their “gifting.” Some of us may have even been bold enough to address the person(s) directly or broached the topic with the Pastor, as though expecting applause or a medal for our “assistance.”

But this morning, I thank God for Grace. Not only is it humbling, it is also a great equalizer. For it makes us realize that no matter who we are, or what we do, it makes no difference to God, where election is concerned. Grace:-None of us deserve it, yet God chose to extend it…because He loves us.

We in turn, choose God because He calls us. How does He call us? Through the proclamation or preaching of the gospel of Jesus the Christ; through the witnessing of believers to those they interact with on a daily basis, through the scriptures made freely accessible by various organization and believe it or not, through the many hardships and disappointments we experience in our lives. We choose God because He first chose and called us to Himself. In all instances, God is the initiator.

When things are free, there is the tendency to rush to embrace it, then…after a while, it begins to lose value because it cost us nothing. We take it for granted. I want to suggest, or maybe I should say remind us this morning that, that free item, may have cost us nothing, but somewhere, somehow, sometime…someone had to pay a cost to provide us with that free item. In the case of Grace, the someone, was Jesus the Christ and the cost was His life. The book of Isaiah chapter 53 verse 5 tells us that He was wounded for our transgressions (wrongdoings), crushed for our iniquities (sins); upon Him was the punishment that made us whole, and by His bruises we are healed. We, you and I, exist because of His grace; we walk in health because we need not be crippled by emotional, spiritual and/or mental agonies caused by the weight of our sins. Therefore, we dare not be complacent of the gift of Grace that is our very lives.

Jesus never has nor will ever be a complacent God. When He said, “It is finished.” from the cross, had He been complacent, He could have stopped there. After all, as the sacrificial lamb, His blood had already been shed, He’d taken on our sins, suffered the anguish of being separated from His Dad in a way He’d never experienced before. The lines of communication were down and all He had was His faith that His Dad still loved Him, while He was away on assignment.

But no…although “It is finished.” seemed a fitting end; in actuality…it had just begun! “It is finished” was the public demonstration of our very election by God before the foundation of the earth. What was finished? The reign of Satan was finished; what was finished? The restoration of the relationship between God and mankind was finished. Jesus committed, entrusted, returned His Spirit to its source of origin, the Father, for safekeeping and went to the pits of hell. There He suffered untold agonies, but He was still on the job, taking back everything the devil stole from us. Our joy, our hope, our love, our ability to trust, our lost family members and He rose triumphant on the third day in all power and glory.

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Honk If You Love Jesus!

Friday, May 27th, 2005

The wife of a Southern Baptist preacher talks to her Sunday School class about a wonderful religious experience that she had last week.

The other day I went up to the local Christian book store where I saw a `Honk if you love Jesus` bumper sticker.

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The Strong Black Woman is Dead! Or Is She?

Thursday, May 26th, 2005

This was written as my response to the original poem, “Being a Strong Black Woman Can Get U Killed” by Laini Mataka.  Hope you like it…

The Strong Black Woman is Dead! Or Is She?

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Ten Ways You Can Tell That You’re Shouting Too Much In Church

Wednesday, May 25th, 2005

10. When the Spirit hits you, you pass out on the floor and nobody helps you get up.
9. They change the church service times and tell everybody but You.
8. Your Pastor goes around town looking for a new church for you.
7. You shout during the Announcements. (That’s me…lol)
6. The ushers warn people who sit next to you.
5. There`s a pool on what color underwear you have on this Sunday.
4. When you come into the church, the ushers issue you protective pads and a helmet so you won`t hurt yourself again this Sunday.
3. You come to church with pom poms.
2. Forgetting where you are, you start shouting at your daughter`s graduation. (That’s me…lol)
1. There`s an announcement that states, “If Sister Thornton knocks off Sister Odell`s hat this Sunday, it`s on!!”

Do you see yourself anywhere in the lineup? Now don’t leave me out here by myself! And if you’ve any to add, please feel free to post.

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What Limits You?

Tuesday, May 24th, 2005

What can I say? How many start over at 40? Despite the “it’s-all-downhill-from-here” mindset perpetuated by the folks of yesteryear…I’m finding 39 (almost 40) to be a time of new biginnings, realizations of dreams and more.

I’m now dusting off my cobwebs, growing up, joining the adult world and beginning to feel at home in my space.

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Terry Burns

Monday, May 23rd, 2005

Terry Burns has a new Series from Mysterious Ways from River Oak Publishing that will give him 17 books in print. The second book in the series, Brother’s Keeper, will be out in January. Mysterious Ways has been nominated for the American Christian Fiction Writers book of the year and is slated to be nominated for the Christy Award in December. Trails of the Dime Novel is out in trade paperback from Echelon Press and in audio from JBS Publishing. His trade paperback, To Keep a Promise from The Fiction Works, was a finalists for the Eppie award (ebook form), and the paperback was nominated for the Willa Award. A second title, Don’t I Know You? is out as a paperback as well. Both titles are scheduled for audiobooks this year. He’s published over 200 articles and short stories, is in a short story collection published by the Darkstormy writers, in a collection just out from Coastal Villages Press entitled “Straight from the heart - stories of love and friendship,” the second volume entitled “More stories of love and friendship”, “Soul Matters” from Thomas Nelson, and one entitled “Living by Faith” from Obidiah Press. Terry has published four nonfiction books, has a small book of cowboy poetry entitled “Cowboys Don’t Read Poetry”. His available works can be found at www.terryburns.net

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